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Installed Too Young
Indie Electronic
6/13/2025
"Trying to unlearn. The fear behind the signs."
Inspired by psychologist John Bowlby’s attachment theory, the song explores how our earliest relationships — especially with caregivers — shape the way we love, fear, and connect later in life. These early patterns are like a quiet operating system, installed when we’re too young to choose, but powerful enough to shape every bond we form.
It’s for anyone who's ever asked:
Why do I pull away when I want to be close? Why does love feel like a loop I can't break?