"We’re talking past each other, round and round. On borrowed words, on shaky ground."

Why are we so obsessed with pro-life vs. pro-choice? Why do we keep clashing over gun rights vs. gun control?

It’s not just about the issue—it’s about identity, belonging, and control.

Most people aren’t debating to understand. They’re debating to defend their worldview. Because if they lose, it feels like losing a part of themselves.

👉 That’s why these culture wars don’t end. 👉 That’s why most debates go in circles.

It’s about the walls we build, the stories we protect, and the doors we’re too afraid to open.